Tips for Preparing Fussy Toddlers for a Photo Session

If you have a toddler, you already know – their moods can change faster than you can say “cheese.” Preparing them for a family photo session can feel intimidating, but with a little planning (and a lot of patience), you can set your child up for success and make the experience fun for everyone. The goal isn’t to get a “perfect” posed shot – it’s to capture the joy, personality, and connection of your family as it is right now. A little preparation (and a relaxed mindset) goes a long way toward making your session a success.

Here are my favorite tips for getting those natural, happy smiles on camera:

Plan Around Their Schedule

Book your session at a time when your toddler is usually well-rested and fed. A child who just woke up from a nap or had a snack will be in a much better mood than one who is tired or hungry.

Keep Them Comfortable

Choose clothes that are soft, weather-appropriate, and easy to move in. Avoid anything itchy, tight, or with tags that might irritate their skin. A comfortable toddler is a happy toddler.

Bring Familiar Comfort Items

A favorite toy, blanket, or stuffed animal can help them feel secure in a new environment. Plus, these items can sometimes be included in the photos, adding a personal touch you’ll love looking back on.

Make It Playful

Think of the session as playtime rather than a formal event. Toddlers respond better when they’re having fun, so tickles, silly songs, and games of peekaboo are encouraged!

Pack Snacks and Water

A few quick bites can save the day if your toddler starts getting cranky. Stick to small, non-messy snacks so you don’t have to worry about stains right before photos.

Give Them a Little Time

Arrive a few minutes early so your child can get comfortable with the location and the photographer before the camera comes out. This extra time can make a big difference in how relaxed they feel.

Go With the Flow

Remember, toddlers are unpredictable. Sometimes the sweetest photos come from the unplanned moments – like a spontaneous hug or silly face. Trust your photographer to capture the magic, even if things don’t go perfectly.